When men and women are together, they always seem to make assumptions about what is going on in the mind of the other person. They have already decided what the other person thinks, what the other person wants, or what they need. Assuming that these things will lead nowhere, fast. Just create misunderstandings, guilt and potential embarrassing moments.
Here is a little history "Stacy's sister was having a good romantic wedding ceremony. Naturally Stacy wanted to bring your wedding date Michael share this incredibly romantic experience. During the wedding festivities Stacy was flowing with joy and love was in the air the whole atmosphere of the wedding.
Question Michael hand and wanted him to look deep into her eyes as they danced. But Michael was acting cold towards her. Unfortunately for Stacy, Michael had already been bitten by the bug just love another girl a week before and went with Stacy because he thought he just needed a friend to go to the wedding.
The following are the lessons we can learn from the experience Stacy:
1. Do not have expectations. Whatever happens between two people is unpredictable and some people react badly to requests from start to court. No expectations and feelings will be affected if the date is wrong, and even better if the date goes well, then it will be a "bonus".
2. Make sure that you are openly agreement of that day and that everyone is there for.
3. To be completely honest with each other about other relationships from day one. If you see someone from time to time, be open about it!
4. Be clear to others exactly what the plans must be dated. Sometimes the person is conscious or not interested in what you have planned, you can do that the result is annoying for both.
Here is a little history "Stacy's sister was having a good romantic wedding ceremony. Naturally Stacy wanted to bring your wedding date Michael share this incredibly romantic experience. During the wedding festivities Stacy was flowing with joy and love was in the air the whole atmosphere of the wedding.
Question Michael hand and wanted him to look deep into her eyes as they danced. But Michael was acting cold towards her. Unfortunately for Stacy, Michael had already been bitten by the bug just love another girl a week before and went with Stacy because he thought he just needed a friend to go to the wedding.
The following are the lessons we can learn from the experience Stacy:
1. Do not have expectations. Whatever happens between two people is unpredictable and some people react badly to requests from start to court. No expectations and feelings will be affected if the date is wrong, and even better if the date goes well, then it will be a "bonus".
2. Make sure that you are openly agreement of that day and that everyone is there for.
3. To be completely honest with each other about other relationships from day one. If you see someone from time to time, be open about it!
4. Be clear to others exactly what the plans must be dated. Sometimes the person is conscious or not interested in what you have planned, you can do that the result is annoying for both.
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