Sunday, August 31, 2014

Email Fraud Miss Binet Saolona Bemba

From        :  Miss Binet Saolona Bemba
Country    :  Republic of Congo
Dated       :  25 August 2014 16:20
Email        :
Subject     :  This Is Everything About Me,With Love And Trust?????

How are you today?,Hope you are well.I am your dear Binet Bemba,in fact,his partner showed me that you are the real person that my soul was craving for a long time, actually, I'm bored as my life in this bad environment,I'm using the Reverend Pastor David Solomon computer office in Church in the center of the network Cross.I'm living under the authority of the a refugee as a refugee after the funeral my father's footsteps.Also,I want to say more about is very painful in my soul to say that I am an orphan,I do my father nor my biological mother,Jeannot Bemba Saolona Congo but took me motherless babies home and raised, but, unfortunately,died on July 3, 2009,after a brief illness,I'm wandering without any help after his death, indeed, life has been so hard for me because of hatred his family, unhappiness made me flee the country to take asylum here in Senegal living under the authority of a refugee as a refugee because his family pushed the me out of his house and to kill manejaba me by Jeannot Bemba tea on your property, but God said,I will not to be alive today.

Meanwhile,after his death,his lawyer called me and gave me will that Jeannot Bemba wrote my name,according to his will,he deposited ($ 7.2 million) in one of the international banks out side the country.So when his family discovered that the amount of money in my name for his brother,who was angry and manejaba together to kill me and destroy my life to sums up the legacy of his brother, but God said no.Second,the country is attacked by Congo rebels,the rebels are killing people every day and rapping young beautiful women everywhere,so there is no problem too big in the country by the I decided to ran way to be here in Senegal as a refugee with the documents, because I have no where else to go and I do not want to lose my life.In fact,my life has been so ridiculous,there is nothing to eat,no water to drink,the oxygen we breathe is polluted by evil,I did the Bank to be aware of the death of Mr.Jeannot inheritance.but Bemba and my plans to recover the bank refused due to my refugee statues say it is against the law of the bank to do business with someone in captivity as the bank advised me to find a person,spouse or business partner may stay free as my other administrator with them so they can transfer the money to your account for the person to help me on the basis of the explanations, like you get in my name as my bank manager to allow the bank to transfer the $7.2 dollars(7.2 million U.S.dollars States)to their account to withdraw money from her and send me my freedom refugees pay fees,pick up my traveling documents to come and meet you there or you can come see me face to face and then I go back with you or to finance or sponsor my coming to know their country,for their own account so that we can together before starting the operation.

However,it is my solemn pleasure to tell all these secrete, do not say you do not know and do not know me, our relationship is to divine connection because God wants to increase its financial capacity of an orphan like me and if God touches the heart see my poor condition, despite the heritage in question, then you can help me with all your heart,because you're doing it for God and not human was then given the job of faith and trust of the bottom of my heart,I hope not betray me and my ambition is that when the money is in your account, you will help me to invest in any type of business in your country by recommendation.if you marry me be in control of all our investment,but if you refuse to marry me, I will draw 25% for the good work and trust in you confused after transaction.Therefore, ensure that secrete just keep this to yourself,do not want the loss of my life and money, because this place I'm living with my documents is not safe.anyway,I'd like to call me through the reverend pastor phone number(+221 762848065),so I'll talk to you listen to your voice and you are free to contact the Reverend pastor in your e-mail address if you wants to ask for me( send your phone number,your address and your image in the message OK so I will put things into action for the bank to transfer the money to your account pending my arrival to meet you in your country.I must stop here, be sure to take good care of yourself while waiting for positive response soon.

With all my love, red heart.

Binet Bemba Saolona

Saturday, August 30, 2014

Email Scammer Miss Binet Saolona Bemba from Republic of Congo

It is proof that he was an impostor, now he's using the name of Miss Binet Saolona Bemba, Republic of Congo nationals and before he used the name of Joy Harry, Liberian citizens, and use the same photo, this is a fraudulent email that letter:

From        :  Miss Binet Saolona Bemba
Country    :  Republic of Congo
Dated       :  10 August 2014 00:37
Email        :
Subject     :  Nice to meet you from Binet

How are you today.

Thank you for your response to honor my request, I hope you are in perfect health and peace with your family,my heart with joy is presented to honor my request because the relationship does not care about age,color,distance or tribe as the other,on the contrary,it becomes impossible possible to meet, regardless of distance or tribe.i want to share things in common with you, compare our past life,present and future experiences exercise joy and happiness every day of our lives.

Meanwhile,my name is Miss binet Saolona Bemba,a citizen of the Republic of Congo, but currently lives in Dakar, Senegal, I am a girl of 23 years old, never married and has no children,I'm just in complexion,great sense of humor,loving,kind,humble,faithful, reliable,slow to anger,compassion,I am happy to share with you today because I was looking for a man good, nice,caring,someone to confide in my life,who will take care of me,a man I'll make my life in his hands, a man I can not express my greatest and sweetest love and share things in common with him during his lifetime.and my heart tells me that you're the man that God sent my life.

I promise to be a good girl for you, as we continue this communication and I firmly believe that God has a purpose for our relationship future.i tell me about yourself,your social life, your country,your profession,you want my picture?,I'll tell you more about myself in my next mail with my phone number.Thank you for your understanding, waiting for your reply soon.

your,s Binet

Friday, August 29, 2014

Email Scammer Engr. IFTIKHAR ALI KHAN from Pakistan

From          :  Engr. IFTIKHAR ALI KHAN
Country      :  Pakistan
Dated         :  Sat, Aug 23, 2014 at 3:30 PM
Email          :


Good day to you and your family.I apologize if the content here-under are contrary to your moral ethics but please treat with absolute secrecy and personal.

My name is Engr. IFTIKHAR ALI KHAN from Pakistan, Currently working as Chief MEP Engineer in OSMANI & COMPANY (Pvt). Ltd. A Consultancy firm Appointed by ABU DHABI Municipality Govt. of UAE for Preparation of Tender Documents and Guidance Drawings, Invitation ofBids, Making Comparative Statement, Recommendations for Award of Contract, Verification of Construction Drawings and Detailed Construction Supervision of 250 H.H. Beds SHEIKH KHALIFA BIN ZAYED AL-NAHYAN Hospital Project.

Due to the Terrorist recent killings in Pakistan,I diverted over invoiced contract funds by the government of Pakistan into a bank in London UK, for safety.

The amount that was moved to the bank is $42.6Million usd with the help of  a friend who is a bank manager with Habib Bank Ltd to move the fund to UK after given him his own share. I could not move the funds nor deposit it in my name so as to avoid suspicion by the Pakistan government.

I want to transfer this fund into your bank account in your country. I have contacted the Director of the bank where the fund is deposited and asked if the fund can be wired to your account via bank transfer without any trace and he said that it is very possible.

Why i contacted you is that I want you to tell me more about good investment so that i will move this fund into your account in your country so that I could relocate my investment planning to your country, out of Pakistan, Now that Pakistan security and  Economic independence had been lost to the greatest lower level, and our culture has been lost, i have to relocate my family out from Pakistan to your country after investment.

I need a foreign partner to enable me transport my investment capital and then relocate with my family, honestly. Tell me more about your country, how good it will be to invest in your country Cities, Such as buying of properties, houses, real estate and investments in tourism.

I will appreciate whatever result you may brief me. Do let me know your idea and knowledge regarding these or any other profitable investment you may suggest.

I shall tell you more about this transaction as soon as i get your readiness concerning this transaction.

Waiting for your reply

Thanks and best regards,

Thursday, August 28, 2014

The Best Dates Are Free

Perhaps the best things in life are free. Looking back, the best dates I ever went on didn’t cost much or anything at all.

Traditional dating can be expensive; dinner, which can easily cost $40 or more. Follow that with a movie, which can run another $40 if you buy popcorn, drinks and candy. Suddenly you are close to a hundred dollar evening, and before you know it, all of your extra money for the month has been spent on a date.

Yet it doesn’t have to cost so much. The best thing is that often, romance can be free. An afternoon spent hiking. Having a nice quiet picnic at a park or lake, an afternoon stroll through the forest; All wonderful dates, and they only cost you time.

Here are some more ideas:
An evening spent quietly at home. Cook your favorite dish or make it an adventure and try all new recipes. Watch movies, play a board game or a bottle of wine and the starry night sky.

Visit a local festival or art fair. Many towns and communities have local events, especially in the summer. It’s a good opportunity to experience good food, entertainment and the outdoors.

Go camping. Most campgrounds offer free setups for tents. Spend the evening under the stars. Make smores and relax by the fire. Listen to the crickets. Often the best dates are those that you spend a lot of thought on not money. Anyone can spend money on dinner and a movie, and yet it is truly unique for someone to make a date to go to the farmer’s market and pick out fresh produce for dinner.

First dates at times can be a little tense. Exchange the usual first-date feelings with a more relaxed atmosphere. Instead of the same old Friday or Saturday night first date, try instead a Sunday afternoon stroll through the park! Saturday afternoon ball games work just as well. Ask yourself how you can take the formality out of the situation. Always make sure that you look for activities where you can get to know each other — that’s what first dates are all about.

There are an endless amount of possibilities. Once you get to know her, you will find many different inexpensive date ideas. Even married couples can take advantage of frugal dating.

A date is much more than a dinner; it is spending time getting to know her. When you take the time to find unique ways to spend time together, that time becomes special. You could try something new every time with her or do the same thing every weekend. What really matters isn’t the money you spend, it’s the time. Have fun!

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Dating Tips For The Timid

There are some timid, shy people around which have difficulties to make an open chat with new singles, they typically need additional time to adjust to the situation. An uncomplicated convenient answer for them might be to go out on a first date to the movies hence to get used to the presence of the new date, without the obligation to talk. When you come out, you might talk about the movie you Just both watched.

An additional notion, if you’re shy about making a chat, is to ask your date on herself. It’ll serve to show that you’re interested in learning about her, as well as remove part of the pressure of talking, off you, until you’re more comfort. By making them do the to talk you may feel less stressed and eventually you will relax adequatly to talk about yourself.

Last point, take into account that Most humans love to talk mainly all about their life, actually, what they would like most is someone that would hear them attentively, therefore if you are a good listener you will find A lot of people feel most at ease with you.

Remember, you should do anything you can to put your shyness in the corner, otherwise it will put you in the corner…

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Impress Your Loved Ones With Special Roses

Since ancient times roses are considered to be the symbol of love, and for centuries giving someone a rose has been considered a beautiful gesture. Because roses are involved in so many stories and legends each type of rose has its own meaning, so you can say that roses speak their own language.

Nowadays roses can be made more beautiful with the help of special inscriptions and other enhancements, and you can make your loved ones a really beautiful gift by giving them a special unique rose that will certainly impress them. You can do this without leaving your house, with the help of the Internet. You can find special stores on the Internet that sell customized unique roses and deliver them to whomever you want together with a message from you if you want. This will definitely be a present that they will never forget.

There is large variety of special single roses or rose bouquets that you can find available to order. Here are a few beautiful examples of what you can offer your loved ones :

If you want something simple you can offer them a single stem rose, that has a customized message on it. This message can be anything from ‘Happy birthday’, ‘i love you’, or even ‘will you marry me’. These single roses also have a special wrapping around it.

If you want something more impressive, you can send a customized rose bouquet. This will contain the freshest roses, wrapped in an unique bouquet, and that can have your special messages printed on their petals. This bouquet may even have 30 roses in it, so it will surely impress.

You can also make some combinations with roses and other nice gifts like chocolate or champagne. Your loved one can receive a beautiful single rose together with a box containing the finest chocolate, and a love message from you. or, she can receive the rose (or rose bouquet) together with a bottle of luxury champagne.

Also, if you would like, you can send an artificial silk rose to your loved one, so she can keep it for a long time. These silk roses can also be sent with a special message on them or together with chocolate or champagne.

All the roses are very fresh and the bouquets are arranged by professional florists, so they would be a beautiful perfect gift for anyone!

Monday, August 25, 2014

Reading Body Language

Body language is a discipline about non-verbal behavior, one of the most powerful, private and
quite language because it helps you understand emotions and feelings of people around you.

Body language is one of the most important languages to learn because after you know how to
interpret the behavior of others you will know what they really think.
Reading and interpreting body language is an art and science. She makes every action with a
purpose and it expresses something. Therefore, it is very important to discover reading body
language, signals, smiles, gestures.

Maybe you have a friend, a girl one, and you want to know if she is interested in you, or it is a
girl that you like and you do not know how to approach her, or just you meet her in a club and
she looks interested in you, learn to read her body language to know her feelings. You can see
exactly what a woman thinks by reading her body language, pay attention to the signs, read them
and use them to your advantage.

Women’s body language is very subtle so you should know to read it. Let us say that she is a
girl that you really like and you meet her at a party. Watch her closely as soon as you get a
sign that she is interested in you too, to make sure that you catch her with your charm.
You can find out her thoughts and feelings by reading the signs:

- watch her head toss, if she throw her hair over
  her shoulders and show off her neck, it means that she want to attract attention

- if she pushes her fingers throw her hair means that she really love to be conquered

- she looks into your eyes with deep interest means that she wants to meet you better

- while talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes

- if she get nervous while you are looking at her means that she is a little shy, but she has
  interest in you

- her skin tone becomes red while being around you

- big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face

- she bumps into you and touches you accidentally means that she wanted to be sure that you sow her

- she is dressed very sexy , to show her nipples underneath and she is fixing her outfit to make
  herself look better, means that she is friendly and free

- also, the most appealing position for men is a woman sitting with one leg pressed against the
  other, placing one hand on her thigh, it’s surely a clear call for attention

- if her pupils dilated when she is looking at you means that she likes you

- she shows her shoulders, legs or feet means that she is comfortable with the surroundings and
  with you

- raises eyebrows while talking is a sign of attraction

- when you talk with her if she is looking at your mouth while talking and smiles at every
  slick thing you try to say, you definitely caught her

- if she bites her lips often means that she is nervous and you better stop staring at her

- also, if she sits with her arms crossed together she is very angry and she don’t want to
  have nothing with you at the moment

- if she touches the edge of the glass with her fingers, is an sexual sign, it is a sign of
  intrinsic calmness, self control and waiting to sit by her

- another sign that she is interested in you is if she plays with her jewelries while you are
  passing over her, especially with stoking and pulling motions

If the girl you like gives you this signs that she is interested in you too, do not lose time
and make the first step to catch her. Learn to hold eye contact longer than her, show her that
you are not afraid and do not look away until she does. Use a confident voice tone – this turns
women on.

Also, knowing reading body language can help you detect if a person is lying you:

- if she is not looking in your eyes directly while speaking
- is nervous and uncomfortable being with you
- she is saying different stories on different frames
- is extremely defensiveness

As you see, it is very important to know to read the women’s body language, even if you want to
attract one, even if you have already a girlfriend to know which her feelings for you are.

Fraud Email Mr. Jun Huan from Hong Kong

From           :  Mr. Jun Huan
Country       :  Hong Kong
Date            :  Sun, Aug 24, 2014 at 10:40 AM
Email           :
Subject        :  Urgent Attention

Dear Friend,

Thank you very much for your response. First and foremost it is a good thing that you have responded timely and I must use this medium to assure you that we must succeed in this business.I am making this contact with you based on reliable information available to me courtesy of internet business index and confirmed by our local chambers of commerce and industry concerning your reputation.

Now, for us to successfully commence this business I will like to know you better to enable me trust you 100%. The need for trust in this business is due to the large sum involved as you are entitled to 50% from the total sum and as such I will like you to provide me with a brief resume of yourself.Once I have had this response from you, I will feel a lot safer to divulge vital aspects of this business to you and provide you with all the needed information which would enable us commence this business immediately.

 I need to know if you are married:
 Do you have children:
 Where you work:/Position

Let me use this opportunity to assure you that this business is 100% safe and risk free, being a success in all its ramifications. This is and always will be my utmost guarantee to you. Once I get a response from you, I will then go ahead and furnish you with all the basic information which will enable you understand this business totally then we can proceed to commence ASAP!!!

Best Regards,
Mr. Jun Huan

Sunday, August 24, 2014

How Can You Tell When You Have Found The Right Person

Love is such a wonderful thing that when shared by two people, the feelings become mutual and the gratifications achieved. All of these are established during the start of dating.

Dating becomes the primary selection ground for people who wish to end up with somebody they can grow old with. It provides them the means to find the right person whom they can share their sentiments, their feelings, problems, etc.

Normally, the stages of dating illustrate continuous experiences. As the couple proceeds on the next level, they get to know another chapter in their mate’s life.

However, even if it seems that two people are already mutual with regards to their feelings, there are instances that one of them would ask if their mate is the right person for them. They can feel that they are happy as of the moment but when the concept of finding the right person sinks in; a lot of questions take place.

Even if everything seems to be in perfect condition and that dates are always pleasurable and gratifying, no one can be sure if his or her mate is the right person unless he or she will make extra effort to analyze the situation and the person he or she is currently involved with.

So, for people who wish to know if the person they are dating right now is the right person or if what they are doing is right or wrong, here are some tips on how to identify the real score of the person they are dealing with.

1. It would be better for an individual to assess his or her feelings about the other person.

In order to know if an individual has already found the right person, it is best to assess their feelings towards the other person.

For example, an individual should try to identify the other person’s qualities. These qualities that can usually be seen everyday with the person would mean that these are the same qualities that the concerned individual has to deal with.

Hence, it would be better to assess if the concerned individual likes what he or she is seeing or if they can tolerate the personality of the other person.

In the event that the other person has some qualities that are not that desirable, it would be better for the individual to be sure of their feelings about the unlikely behavior. If they think that they can withstand and endure those things even if it will not change, chances are, they have found the right person.

The other person may not literally be righteous but the fact that the concerned individual can accept whatever the other person is, then, it must be love.

2. If the concerned person will get to accept the other person’s faults or shortcomings not because of some hopes that someday he or she will change, then, it must be the right person.

One should realize that accepting somebody should never be conditional. This means that when a person accepts someone who has qualities not included in his or her concept of an ideal mate, he or she should not pose some conditions or expects something regarding future changes.

Because if this is the basis of acceptance, chances are, the concerned individual will only be disappointed in the future and will only make matters worst.

3. If there are no obstacles that will in time kill the flame of love, then, it must be the right person.

If in the event that an individual finds somebody and they feel that the relationship is finally the real thing, it would still be better to assess if there will be no more impediments that would curb the growth of a wonderful relationship.

This simply means that the person should be sure that there will be no elements or factors that will trigger some problems on their relationship in the future like vices, addiction, family problems, previous relationships, etc.

If the coast is clear, then, the concerned person had finally found his or her right mate and that in time the relationship will flourish and be successful.

All of these things are boiled down to the fact that love is not 100% perfect. People should realize that there are no such things as perfect people. As humans, people are susceptible to mistakes, imperfections, flaws, and whatever weaknesses man is destined to entail in his or her personality.

So, the best thing to use when identifying the right person is careful analysis of the individual as a whole and not just the physical attributes where substantial attraction is usually based from.

Email Scammer Mr. Jun Huan from Hong Kong

From           :  Mr. Jun Huan
Country       :  Hong Kong
Date            :  Wed, Aug 20, 2014 at 3:47 PM
Email           :
Subject        :  Urgent Attention

Good Day

I am Mr. Jun Huan of HSH Nordbank AG, Hong Kong. I have an obscured business of $24.5million dollars, Kindly write back to (, I shall let you know what is required of you.

Best Regards,
Mr. Jun Huan
HSH Nordbank AG (Hong Kong)


From           :  Mr. Jun Huan
Country       :  Hong Kong
Date            :  Thu, Aug 21, 2014 at 8:12 PM
Email           :
Subject        :  -

HSH Nordbank AG
Hong Kong Branch
Level 31, Three Pacific Place
1 Queen's Road East,
Hong Kong.

Good Day To You,

I am Mr.Jun Huan of HSH Nordbank AG, Hong Kong. In November, 1999, Ahmad Fahmi an Indonesian, a contractor with the Iraqi Government and also a businessman, made a time investment of US$24.5M as secured growth funds for (60) sixty calendar months in my Branch. This investment has matured and has been lying in our Bank reserve for the past two years, and under the Hong Kong banking laws, any time Investment unclaimed after three years will be turned over to the Hong Kong Government purse.

Upon maturity several notices were sent to him and no response came from him. Early This year, it was later discovered that the Ahmad Fahmi and his family were killed in a convoy attack in Musol, Iraqi on 22nd Aug, 2004. After further investigation it was also discovered that Ahmad Fahmi did not declare any next of kin in his official papers including the paper work of his Bank deposit. And he also confided in me the last time he was in my Office that no one except me knew of his deposit in my Bank.

Against this backdrop. I will like you as a foreigner to stand as the next of kin to Ahmad Fahmi so that you will be able to receive this funds. I have contacted an Attorney that will prepare the necessary document that will back you up as the next of kin to Ahmad Fahmi and also the rightful beneficial to the funds. After you have been made the next of kin, the Attorney will also fill in for claims on your behalf and secure the necessary approval and letter of probate in your favour for the transfer of the funds to your nominated bank account.We are going adopt a legalized method and the Attorney will prepare all the necessary documents.Please endeavour to observe utmost discretion in all matters concerning this issue. What is required from you at this stage is your total Trustworthy,Honesty, Integrity, Loyalty to enable my Attorney commence his job.

Reply strictly if you are interested to enable the Attorney commences his job immediately.

Mr.Jun Huan.

Email Scam Mr. John Lee from Africa

From           :  Mr. John Lee (I.M.F).
Country       :  Africa
Date            :  Sat, Aug 23, 2014 at 7:12 PM
Email           :
Reply-To     :

( I.M.F ) Head Office
Senior Resident Representative
9 Hon. Justice Mohammed Bello St.
Asokoro Abuja

Attention; Fund Beneficiary,

This is to intimate you of a very important information which will be of a great help to redeem you from all the difficulties you have been experiencing in getting your long over due payment, due to excessive demand for money from you by both corrupt Bank officials and Courier Companies after which your fund remain unpaid to you.
I am Mr. John Lee, a highly placed official of the International Monetary  Fund (IMF). It may interest you to know that reports have reached our office by so many correspondences on the uneasy way which people like you are treated by Various Banks and Courier Companies/ Diplomat across Europe to Africa and Asia /London Uk. We have decided to put a stop to that and that is why I was appointed to handle your transaction here in Nigeria.

All Governmental and Non-Governmental prostates, NGOs, Finance Companies, Banks, Security Companies and Courier companies which have been in contact with you of late have been instructed to back off from your transaction and you have been advised NOT to respond to them anymore since the International Monetary Fund (IMF) is now directly in charge of your payment.

Your name appeared in our payment schedule list of beneficiaries that will receive their funds in this first quarter payment of the year because we only transfer fund twice in a year according to our banking regulation. We apologize for the delay of your payment and please stop communicating with any office now and attention to our office payment accordingly.

Now your new Payment, United nation Approval No; UN5685P, White House Approved No: WH44CV, Reference No.-35460021, Allocation No: 674632 Password No: 339331, Pin Code No: 55674 and your Certificate of Merit  Payment No: 103, Released Code No: 0763; Immediate (IMF) Telex  confirmation No: -1114433; Secret Code No: XXTN013.

Your part payment inheritance fund is USD$10.7Million. Having received these vital payment numbers, therefore you are qualified now to received and confirm your payment with the International Monetary Fund (IMF) African Region immediately within the next 168hrs. We assure you that your payment will get to you as long as you follow my directives and instructions. We have decided to give you a CODE, THE CODE IS: 601. Please, any time you receive a mail with the name Mr.John Lee, check if there is CODE (601) if the code is not written, please delete the massage from your box!

You are hereby advised NOT to remit further payment to any institutions with respect to your transaction as your fund will be transferred to you directly from our source. I hope this is clear. Any action contrary to this instruction is at your own risk. Respond to this e-mail on  ( with immediate effect and we shall give you further details on how your fund will be released. Also  call me as soon as you send the e-mail so that you will be given an immediate response:Direct Hot-line: Call:+234-802-934-1610


Mr. John Lee (I.M.F).

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Why Free Dating Sites Just Dont Work

The main difference between online dating websites and other membership sites is that on joining a dating website, you are required to make an attractive profile, which is used alomost as a marketing tool to present yourself to other members in the best possible light. Without a completed profile you haven’t a chance of attracting other genuine members who are seeking a partner.

Completing a profile of one’s self is regarded by many as the most boring, time consuming chore you could ever be asked to perform by any website. And a large percentage of surfers will “put it off till later today or tomorrow” which in most cases means it will never be done. And in fact oftentimes they will never even return to the website.

Most researchers will agree that those who join a website community solely because its free rarely return to the site or sustain an interest longer than a few days. And it’s not because they are forgetful and don’t remember registering, because the website administrators will almost certainly send out reminders on a daily basis.

The online membership communities which includes dating sites would not exist if it weren’t for the members in their databases and it’s important that all members who bother to sign up, take an active part in the community and the services it offers. Otherwise it is a waste of not only the indolent member’s time, but also the time of the website administrator and other genuine members.

Whereas, on the other hand, in the case of those membership sites that charge a monthly fee to become a member, they will have very few users who register, then stay away or don’t bother to complete a profile. Once a user has been tempted to take out his or her credit card, they will be much more inclined to take their membership seriously enough to create a decent profile and visit it several times a day to monitor interest from other members.

The ‘fee charging’ sites will find it much tougher to get sign ups, but whats the point in having a couple of thousand members in your database if fifteen hundred of them are dormant and don’t even respond to your emails? Much better for all concerned to just have five hundred interested members who pay regular visits to the website and use the facilities to the full.

But what of fee charging dating sites that offer a free period as a trial membership? Well that word “free” continues to cause complacency, but to a lesser degree. Whilst a free period may attract prospective members to a trial period, there are still a large percentage of these free users, who do not return to the website after subscribing.

Many dating sites who offer a free trial period, require the user to complete a profile before they are accepted as a free member. Some users however, will want to explore the member database before joining, and if required to join before they are allowed to search, a large percentage of these users will simply move on, and prospective members will be lost.. perhaps to a competitor website.

The highest number of long term signups per 1000 site visitors is enjoyed by those dating sites offering a free trial period, along with a script that will auto delete profiles not completed within a given period of say seven days.

The lowest number of long term signups per 1000 site visitors reflects the success rates of the ‘absolutely free for all’ membership websites, dating or otherwise.

Trevor Taylor –

Friday, August 22, 2014

Getting One S Phone Number Ain T That Hard

Most men have difficulties in asking someone’s phone number for a date but how can you really get your date’s phone number without scaring them away?

Different men have different approaches. Shyness makes it difficult for some to muster up the courage to get the phone number of the person they are interested in. Sometimes, men have the tendency to be too aggressive that it drives women away. The best way to get her phone number is by asking her casually in a way that she can still feel that your interested. Saying the right words at the right time may convince the person to give you her number. For example, when you have just met this person and you are about to say your goodbyes you can say casually: “I enjoyed talking to you and I’d love to be able to phone you sometime.”

Some women might be uncomfortable with this scenario that they ask for your number instead. Don’t take this against you. It doesn’t mean that she is not interested in you. Maybe she has to work and thinks it’s better for her to call you so that at least you won’t be greeted by an answering machine every time you call. Wait for that call for about three days and if the call does not happen then don’t expect for her to call you.

Getting someone’s phone number is quite hard, so try to keep your conversation interesting so he/she would be interested. Men would want to get there phone number right away. They usually end up empty handed. Sometimes it’s good not to ask her directly for her number. You can try saying that you had a great time and that you’d love to see her again. You can wait a little until she gives you the number, but if she doesn’t and if you feel that she had a great time also, you can go right ahead and ask her the number.

Women love confidence. And men have to understand that confidence isn’t just about getting her number. It’s how you handle the situation if she doesn’t give you her number. Politely ask why she didn’t in that way she would feel guilty and might just give you her magical phone number.

Sometimes women would say, “Why don’t you just give me your number?” This is usually there way of saying that they’re not interested. You can change that by trying to talk to her and making sure that she feels that your intentions are pure. Do not be desperate in getting her number. Women hate that. Desperate men sometimes, they lead to stalking. Try to be as casual as possible in getting her phone number. If she doesn’t give you the number, move on.

Another way to get her phone number is to first move up to her and start having a conversation. After 3-4 minutes, say that you have to go back to your friends and turn to leave. Then turn to her again and say, “Hey! Do you have an email?” And if she says yes give her a pen and paper and when she’s writing it down say, “Can you write your phone number too?”

Getting someone’s phone number is quite hard. You just need to gather up your confidence and ask her casually. Don’t make a big deal out of it if she turns you down. Remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Evidence of fraudulent email Sr.Tiago De Guerreiro

It is evidence that Sr. Tiago De Guerreiro is an impostor, because I only
reply to his letter like this: "Good morning Sister Tiago how are you
today, hopefully healthy and happy, I have received your letter and
I thank you for the trust in me to deposit money your charity, and
now what do I do, and the truth is this real? " and he replied back letter
like this:

From          :  Sr.Tiago De Guerreiro
Country      :  Portuguese
Date           :  21 August 2014 14:48
Emai;          :
Subject       :  Message From Tiago De Guerreiro.


I read your letter with tears streaming down my eyes.The reason of the
tears is because you are such a good, kind and wonderful person.Each
time i read your message i get comfort which i need at this period of
my life.You are like a brother and family to me and your message
always filled my heart with joy and happiness.I came to realized now
that God sent you to me at this time not only for the charity work but
also to comfort me with your kindly message.I pray that Almighty God
in his infinite love and mercy to continue to guide and protect you
and your family always.

Yes love is the greatest gift that God gave to us and we have to show
love to one another.I regret all my action in the past and the reason
why i contact you is for you to inherit my money which i want you to
use for charity work to help the poor and less privilege.I don't have
much time left according to medical expert as i told you before.Now i
want my lawyer to prepare a legal documents to will my money to your
name which will give you access to inherit the money which i want you
to use for the charity work to help the poor and less privilege.I want
you to send a copy of your passport to me,address and telephone number
so that i will forward the information to my lawyer to enable him to
start the legal work for the change of ownership in your name.

I also want to tell you this.The pains in mu body is getting worse day
by day and my doctor insist that i have to do another surgery.The
doctor also let me to understand that the chances for me to survive
the surgery is very very little.I don't want to do the surgery now
because i want us to finish the transfer before my surgery and should
any thing happen to me after the surgery.By then the money will be in
you possession for the charity work.I am entrust this responsibility
in your hand with full trust and confident, and i pray and believed
that God will guide and see you through.

So i want you to send your passport copy or id card together with your
address and telephone number so that i will forward to my lawyer to
start the work as i want every thing to finish this week because of my
surgery that is coming which i postponed for us to finish this
arrangement first.I am also sending a copy of my passport to you which
you will find as attached file.

May the grace and love of God be with you and your family always.

Yours sincerely,


Thursday, August 21, 2014

email reply from the fraudulent Sr. Tiago De Guerreiro

A reply from the fraudulent emails Sr. Tiago De Guerreiro and some photos

From         :  Sr.Tiago De Guerreiro
Country     :  Portuguese
Date          :  20 August 2014 19:39
Emai;         :
Subject      :  Message From Tiago De Guerreiro.

Hello Dear,

Thanks so much for your reply, I am so overwhelmed, I appreciate you.
God bless you for me and the lives of the less privilege and the
needy. This world is filled with ups and down, and I have come to
understand that as long as you are a mortal, you need to always regret
for the sinful act of your past and turns to God, as long as you ought
to have eternity.

Meanwhile it is by grace of God we know each other and I strongly
believed that God knows the reason why He chose you to accomplish this
task for him and his children (less privilege and the needy). Please
never you ask why? Because God knows it all, I contacted you with good
mind and good intentions believing that you will surely help me by
distributing this money to the poor and the needy and my chances of
survival is not up to %5 according to Doctor but i am not afraid
because i know the will of God will be done.

You are the only family I have right now and I will be happy for you
to add me in your daily prayers. I have experiences a lot in this my
little life and I have been disappointed and abandoned by the people I
called family at this point in my life. I chose not to say any bad
words about this world but I strongly believed that God Almighty has
reason for everything because he said in this words in the Book of
Samuel: (Before your mother conceive you I have already knew who you
are going to be).

Please find attach some of my photo when I learn I have been diagnosed
for Cancer of the Throat and others, and i just hope that you will not
disappoint me at the end of the day, whence the Deposit must have been
transferred to you, cause, you sound very honest and transparent, and
I have this believe and intuition inside me, as well.Also in the attache
you will find my wife picture who dump me in my condition and i learn she
is getting married to my best friend.

I would want everything to be done within a very short period, cause
of the time frame the Doctors have scheduled my treatment.  I would
also like you to send me your photos as well for my comfort, as you
are the only companion I have apart from Dr. Absalom Abraham alone.

I wait for your responses so that I will send the deposit Certificate
and my international Passport.God makes us to understand that
those that believed in him shall be saved and those that put hope in
him will never be disappointed. I have rely my hope in him and only
him will forgive my sins and accept my humble soul and that is the
reason why I made this promises to him by helping the less privilege
and the needy through your humble helping hands.

Remain Blessed as I wait for your urgent response

Yours Brother in the Lord

Sr. Tiago De Guerreiro

Internet Dating Safety Tips

Internet Dating Safety Tips - Anyone who has ever heard of the Internet, whether they have used an Internet dating service or not, is well aware of some of the dangers that dating over the World Wide Web can pose. The fact is, if you Internet dating can actually be a more rewarding experience than dating out in the “real world”, and you may even be more insulated from a negative experience on the Internet that you would be in a face to face situation. The Internet offers several screening experiences that are simply not possible when dating face-to-face, and using these opportunities to your advantage can result in an extremely successful online dating experience.

In order to remain safe on the online dating site, start off your experience with each prospective date with caution. I recommend a step-by-step elevation process. Begin your search through the use of a screen name that others will address you as when they wish to contact you. Progressing to first names is not too big a step, but giving out your last name certainly is- do not do it until you have spent a reasonable amount of time talking to the other person and have a feel for the kind of person they are. Set up a separate email account for communicating with potential dates, and never give out any personal information on the first communications. If you feel the other person is pressing you for this information, be prepared to stop communication (if they are pressuring you on something like this already, the odds are good that you will face further pressures if you establish a relationship anyway).

Pay a lot of attention to what the other person is saying, and make sure to register any comments they make that are suspicious or contradictory as you talk. Don’t rush into anything- you don’t have to meet until you are both comfortable. As you chat, you will both need to establish a direct and forthright rapport with each other, in order to establish the trust which is necessary for a face-to-face meeting (this is one of the unique aspects of Internet dating- the foundation of trust is already there before you have even really met, therefore if it all seems to be working out you are several steps ahead of where you would be if you had met in the flesh initially).

Some hard evidence is always good to establish some trust and a deepening of the relationship. Request a photo, and be prepared to reciprocate. It can be daunting to send that photo, but if the goal is to meet eventually then you are going to see each other sooner or later anyway.

Finally, when it comes time to meet, make sure it is in a highly visible area, with many other people around. Don’t be too private on the first date- dinner at a restaurant, a movie in a theater- something with plenty of other people around as you get to really know the person.

Internet dating is growing in popularity and can be a great way to find and establish a great relationship. The mantra “there are a lot of weirdos out there” certainly rings true, but the simple fact is that this is also true in “real” life. Exercising some additional caution in Internet dating will ensure that you have safe experiences, although just like in real life they may not always bear fruit.

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Email Scam from Sr. Tiago Guerreiro De Portuguese citizens

Yesterday I got an email scam from Sr. Tiago Guerreiro De Portuguese citizens who said that I would get the inheritance deposit since he was diagnosed by a physician to have cancer. I do not know him and he did not know who I am, and it all could not have happened, this proves that the letter is a scam emails like this, and to prove it I will reply to this email in order to receive a letter in the mail a sequel to inform you, and here's the letter:

From         :  Sr.Tiago De Guerreiro
Country     :  Portuguese
Date          :  17 August 2014 13:43
Emai;         :
reply-to      :
Subject      :  Hello My Regards, Message From Sr.Tiago De Guerreiro


I want you to consider this message as important and serious i want you to go through the message very well to enable you to understand the purpose.

I want to introduce myself first before going further.I am a portuguese, My My Name is Sr.Tiago De Guerreiro, I have been diagnosed with cancer,right now I have only about a few months to live, according to medical experts. I have not particularly lived my life so well, as I never really cared for anyone (not even myself) but my business.

despite being rich, I was never generous, I was always hostile to people and only focused on my business as that was the only thing I cared for. But now I regret all my past action and attitude to people and i am willing to make amend which is the purpose why i am sending this message to you.

It is obvious and clear that i will not survive this cancer,i want to hand over my wealth to you for charity foundation i want you to set up on my behalf. I want to have  a Personal and Trustworthy Relationship with you, as I intend and willing to empower the change of ownership for the transfer of my Deposits to your personal possession  for a charity work i want you to initiate on my behalf to help the Less Privilege and the homeless.I realize that all that glitters are not gold,there is more to life than trying to make  all the money in the world.Love is the greatest gift that God gave to us.which we must show to one another.I cry day and night for my past mistake and the reason why i want you to use my money to help the poor and less privilege under my condition is to amend my past mistake and to appeal to God for forgiveness.

I will send more message to you as soon as i hear from you.I want us to conclude this arrangement soonest because of my health condition which is getting worse.

May God be with you,

Please contact me with this email address for more communication,


Sr.Tiago De Guerreiro

Dating Quiz Is Magnetic Pull Present

Dating Quiz Is Magnetic Pull Present - What happens for the first time when a girl meets a boy? It can be either attraction, or revulsion or neutral reaction. When a boy meets a girl, he may find her beautiful attractive, charming. Good speaker, intelligent or having some quality that may attract the boy to the girl. That is like a magnetic pull. Many people fall in love in the beginning because they found the shape of nose to be very cute or the laughter very attractive.

During dating, when you are asking for a date, that magnetic pull has to be present in the beginning. Without that pull no date will get finalized. If you feel revulsion, you will surely not agree for the date. How to develop the magnetic attraction so that you get the first date? Things can go forward only after you get the first date. The question here is how to develop magnetic attraction.

Surly, you do not know about what quality of yours may attract the girl or boy towards you. So the best bet is it develop all the qualities and eliminate all those qualities that may produce any revulsion. Wherever you are not sure be neutral. Let me explain further.

If you see me laughing and find that my teeth are dirty or having stains, surely you will hate that. If you talk to me and sense bad odor, surely you will turn back. It is also true for body odor. Watching my nails, you would surely want to see well-manicured nails, and not dirty nails without shape. You may get shocked if you find me wearing clothes having weird color combination. There are so many areas where we should take care and present ourselves as a perfect specimen. Keep a bunch of good jokes ready. Jokes can break any barrier. Avoid all criticism. Avoid political talk. Avoid everything that may immediately provoke a reaction. The formula for the magnetic attraction is simple – Enhance all that is positive, eliminate all negatives and wherever unsure, adopt neutral attitude. Add in lots of confidence and you are through.

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Where To Go On Your First Date

Where To Go On Your First Date - That is an age-old question. Cave men had it made. They firmly believed in kidnapping and taking their date to a filthy cave out in the middle of nowhere. Those were what was known as the good old days. Now days first date destinations and plans are a little trickier. First let’s cover where NOT to go on a first date.

The old standby of dinner and a movie is a really poor choice for a first date. How will you get to know the lady if you are sitting in a darkened theater with a movie being shown? If you choose the movie, there is probably going to be a lot of frantic car chases and a lot of blood involved. Neither are conducive to creating a memorable evening.

Also, don’t take your date to your parent’s house! She will know right away that you are a mama’s boy and you will never see her again.

Don’t take your date to a sleazy bar with a motel out back. You will scare the poor woman to death. She will jump out of the car and hitchhike back to town believing that she would be safer with a burly truck driver than with you.

Now, some good first date ideas are:

Begin with a simple lunch or coffee date. You want to keep the date casual so suggesting meeting up for lunch or coffee can be a good start. This way, if the date didn’t go so well, you can end the date there but if you enjoy each other company, you have the rest of the day to spend getting to know each other better.

Here are some ideas of where to go if the lunch or coffee date tells you’re there is some good chemistry happening:

If it is the season, an amusement park or a theme park is a good first date idea. It doesn’t matter how old you are, we can all be big kids at heart. There’re so much you can do at amusement parks and theme parks that most likely you will forget about the dating pressure and just have fun.

Most well populated areas have an array of museums covering many different subjects. Visiting one that is dedicated to something that you have in common with the woman is another good first date idea.

Online Dating Services Sites Which Is Which

Online dating services are thriving after almost 10 years now. Some people succeeded in finding that Mr. or Ms. Right through them. Some might not. But for those who still have not lost hope in looking for that potential through these services, here are the top online dating services that might assist a searcher in this endeavor., with a monthly rate of $8.33 to $19.95, has an approximate number of 8 million members and communication is carried out either through IM or e-mail. Reviews have it that MatchMaker is one of the best online services. It boasts of two major features: a.) user-friendly site and b.) One of the most comprehensive profiles online. The profiling consists of an extensive questionnaire and an optional essay.

YahooPersonals has a monthly rate of $7.50 to $19.95 and has more than 5 million members. IM and e-mail is the form of communication with this online dating service. It is loved for its refined search engine. Categories such as living area, age and interests can be used to improve the search process. YahooPersonals has this Premier version that offers a more in-depth profile for those in search of more than casual dating. has a monthly rate of $9 to $24.95 and 3.5 million members. Members’ interaction is supported by chat, IM, e-mail, and voice. DreamDates offers a better communication option of allowing members to talk to each other. It is available in two versions – a Romance membership or an Erotica option. can be availed with the monthly fee of $16.50 to 24.95. Its more than 10 million members communicate through IM, e-mail or chat. If one is interested to allow communication with a person who has shown interest first, but is not that totally at ease yet, with American Singles, one can remain anonymous. This service has this “Tease” message feature, which is a fun and non-committal way of getting in touch with members that you find attractive. has a monthly membership fee of $9.95 – 24.95. Its 15 million members communicate through e-mail or chat. It takes pride on its user-friendly website that offers side-by-side comparisons of one’s requirements and others’ requirements to facilitate the “search.”

With that parade of information regarding various online dating services sites, one’s online search for “the one” will not be as hard as when one is still clueless about them. Good luck!

Monday, August 18, 2014

Dating Secret For Men To Attract Women

Dating Secret For Men To Attract Women - I am going to let you in on a little secret that not to many men want to talk about when it comes to your problems attracting and being with beautiful high quality women.

It is your own fault and it’s all in your mind.

If you’re a man who either doesn’t know how to get beautiful women, keep beautiful women, or be happy with the beautiful woman in your life. Then you need to work on your inner game right now.

Fixing your inner-game isn’t going to happen overnight, imagine your brain is an information Highway and right now for whatever reason the life you have had led you to the Belief “I am NOT Worthy”.

It had become a part of your life and unconsciously you began to build and had let others build more and more “Highways” leading to “I am NOT worthy.”

What if after reading this you are beginning to realize that you need to create a highway towards the cities of “I am WORTHY” and “I am MORE than I Know I AM.”

However, just like Rome was not built in a day, neither will your own Highway to the “Great Cities.”

Yet even though you realize that to build your highways to these great cities will take time I want you to imagine right now what it will be like when you find yourself on the highway and have begun to enter the City of “I am WORTHY” roll down your window and feel the breeze upon your face is it cool or warm?

Take a deep breath and allow the aroma of “I am WORTHY” to encompass your entire body and see just exactly what it is as you hear “I am WORTHY” say welcome and enjoy.

Now use this as motivation and if you need help building your highway to the “Great Cities” know that’s what I am here for.

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Places To Meet Women To Date

Places To Meet Women To Date - Meeting women that you would actually want to date and, maybe eventually, bring home to meet mom and dad, isn’t as hard as it sounds. There is, of course, the singles scene out in the bars and clubs all over town but I don’t recommend that one. It’s not that just bad girls go to bars; it’s that it is hard to tell the good ones from the bad one.

You meet women at work, too, but, there again, I don’t recommend dating them. The problem with that is that, if things don’t work out, you will still have to work together and the situation could be awkward to say the least.

Your friends know women that you haven’t met – sisters, cousins, etc. Ask them to introduce you to them. But, big brother, do avoid blind dates. Those things hardly ever work out and you can spend a lot of money for a very uncomfortable evening.

The best places to meet women that you might actually want to date are at clubs and organizations that you belong to. You will already have something in common with them and will have had the opportunity to see them interact with other people and that tells you a lot about a person. If you aren’t already involved with any clubs or organizations the, for heaven sakes, join some. Find ones that are all about something you are interested in. There are clubs and organizations that cover just about anything you can think of from astronomy to zoology and single women are involved in all of them.

Church is an excellent place to meet women. If there aren’t any single women in the church you go to now, visit other churches until you find one where there are single women. The church itself will provide you with an opportunity to get to know the woman before you ask her for a date. You will be a lot more comfortable and so will she.

Get involved in civic organizations. Women love men who are civic minded. They admire men who are willing to “give back”. And what about political campaigns? You will meet a lot of young women who are passionate about politics.

If all else fails, join a good online dating service. You will meet a lot of eligible women. You can read their profiles and see pictures of them. After you get to know one well enough to ask her for a face-to-face meeting, be sure that you plan the meeting during daylight hours and in a public place.

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Find Out As Much As You Can From Your Date

Find Out As Much As You Can From Your Date - Getting to know that special woman is about the time you spend with her, and about what you get from communication, both verbal and physical. And the more you know, the better your chances. Thus if you plan to keep your relationship moving forward, you are going to have to find out as much as you can about her.

After all, the last thing you want to do is to upset her. That’s a surefire way to kill your chances for romance. First, make sure you give her a chance not only to speak, but to start conversations as well. There is really no better way to get to know her than through the interaction you’ll have with her in conversation. What you learn through all of this communication will serve as a great starting point, from which you can move on to the following suggestions to fill in any blanks in your knowledge of her.

The point of all of this is to get to know as much as you can about your woman as an individual. So many people think that all women or all men like the same things, which simply is not true.

Although there are a good number of things that a lot of women have in common, there are an equal number of things that they don’t have in common, either. The same can be said for men. For example, if a woman were to assume that all men love football then she’d be dead wrong! Likewise, a man would be wrong to assume that all women love cats. Each woman is unique, so you must take the time to find out what she, as a unique person, really wants before you can seduce her.

Ultimately, it all comes back to what you can learn about her for yourself. While it is helpful to get a few tips from her friends, family, and acquaintances, too much of this type of fact-finding will make her feel more like a suspect in an investigation. So it’s back to what you can find out for yourself. And the best possible way to do that is to get her in different settings and see what happens.

Friday, August 15, 2014

How To Be Sensitive With Women

How To Be Sensitive With Women - If you are hoping to be successful in the world of seduction, you’re going to have to know how to be sensitive. When a woman looks at a man, from her unique perspective, one of the key things she sees is how sensitive you are. It can truly be a pass or fail characteristic. If the lady in your life doesn’t see a sensitive side, she’s going to be put off. Personality counts for so much, especially if you’re hoping to go further with a relationship.

To begin with, it’s important to understand just what sensitivity is. Sensitivity, or being sensitive, is just one of those things that’s gotten such a bad rap as to make it virtually a taboo. But false impressions are to blame for that, and we can dismiss such misconceptions here so we can get on with the business of becoming a more sensitive man. But what sensitivity really is, in truth, is responsiveness to things around you. It’s a general sense of what’s going on.

Unfortunately, you may be thinking you’ve already got it pegged. But don’t think it’s just a matter of self-awareness and a general idea of the world around you. The sensitivity women want in a man goes a bit further. Or, put more directly, women are looking for a specific kind of sensitivity in men.

Here’s an example you’re sure to remember from some movie you once saw: a young couple are walking along a street at night, and the temperature is dropping. Conveniently, she had forgotten to bring a coat, but he had remembered to bring his. He notices her shivering, and quickly offers his coat to her, despite his own need for the coat.

Okay, that’s a basic example. But what matters is that the guy was aware of his girlfriend’s need, and he did something about it. Moreover, he made a sacrifice for her. This is a big deal. When a man can be more concerned about the welfare of someone else than himself, he’s got a chance to impress the ladies.

Thursday, August 14, 2014

How to Build Your Confidence In Dating Women

How to Build Your Confidence In Dating Women - When it comes to dating (or even seducing) a woman, confidence is vital. Women often equate “self confidence” with the ability to be successful. While many men believe that women look for successful men because they’re likely to make more money, that’s simply not true.

While it’s a given, women actually look for successful men because they’re more likely to be satisfied. So you may be wondering what a man being satisfied has to do with anything. Let me explain. You see, women know that men who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable.

And in a relationship that means a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember that most women are looking for a man who will be their partner as well as their lover.

Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though you’re both equals.

When it comes to confidence, it seems there are two kinds of people – those who have it and others who simply don’t. Although on the surface this may be true, everyone has the potential to be “self confident”, or motivated if you would like to call it.

Take heart in knowing that you’re a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you find to be positive character traits that you have. Be comforted to know that NOT all women are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a man who’s confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to a relationship with them!

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Waiting To Meet Ms Perfect

Waiting To Meet Ms Perfect - It must be really tough. Do you think you are just a victim of bad luck and that’s the reason Ms. Perfect hasn’t appeared in your life yet? Or have you decided that maybe Ms. Perfect only exists on movie screens and not out here in the real world? BINGO! You’ve got it. She doesn’t exist anywhere except in your imagination and on movie screens.

The truth of the matter is that the reason Ms. Perfect hasn’t appeared has nothing to do with your luck, good or bad, but everything to do with you and the fact that you are busy looking for a person that doesn’t exist! You can’t date with your eyes closed and some impossible dream in your head. You’ll get so caught up in this whole exercise of dating that you forget to look for the qualities you seek! You haven’t met the person of your dreams because you aren’t looking for the things that will make them close enough to perfect for you.

You are so confident that every woman you have met could not give you what you wanted. But what was it that you wanted in the first place? Once you are sure of what you want, you will know exactly what to look for in your woman. What are the qualities that you feel are necessary in a person? What are the attributes you are willing to make a compromise on? Have you thought about all these?

Remember, that nobody on this earth is perfect. Everybody has faults…some are bigger faults than other faults. Some are faults you can overlook and some are faults that you couldn’t overlook on your best day and if she was the most beautiful, most sexy woman on the planet.

When you meet a woman, remember, however hard you try to impress others, you cannot control their thought processes. Instead, it’s far better to concentrate on your needs and desires, and how much of what you need would be fulfilled if you dated this woman.

The Art Of Seducing A Woman

The Art Of Seducing A Woman - Understanding what a woman is looking for in a man is the first secret to seducing a woman. For many men, the concept of how to seduce a woman is simply a mystery. It’s understandable, though. Men and women differ in so many ways that it’s difficult for many of us to really grasp how to get inside the mind of the opposite sex.

The true key to seducing a woman isn’t a mere laundry list to check off, step by step. It’s more a guidebook on the path you must follow to completely seduce a woman, mind, body and soul. And believe it or not, what really gets a woman going is much simpler than you may have ever imagined.

Understanding the differences between the sexes will help give you a better foundation on which to build your knowledge of women. Once you can get inside her mind, it’s all downhill from there.

Communication is ultimately the most important aspect in seducing a woman. Like so many other aspects of our lives, effective communication is the key to success. You want to take the time to really get to know her and what she’s looking for. This will benefit you greatly when it comes to pleasing her, so don’t think that getting to know your woman is a pointless, grueling task of learning a bunch of useless information.

Patience when seducing your woman is equally important, too. Being in a hurry will only prove to damage any good you could’ve done by learning anything at all about your woman. When it comes to seducing a woman, take it slow. We want a man to take his time, not just rush in for the brass ring. A woman wants to know that you aren’t just playing her for sex. And the best way to prove yourself is to take your time.

All in all, women want to feel special. Being romantic makes us feel special. So if you want to seduce your woman you have to be romantic. It proves that you care, that you want to please her and that you know how to treat a woman right. Romance will take you a long way in seducing a woman.

Easy Tips To Have Happy Relationships

Tips To Have Happy Relationships - Have you ever dreamed of having a magic to make your love last longer? If there is a magic, love will be all around, no more sorrow. Or maybe it’s just that some people learn secrets of success from their grandparents or other relatives or friends. And since the latter is probably more accurate, here are some tried and true tips from people who have enjoyed long, happy relationships.

Dates: Keep dating each other. Even if life seems too busy, meet at the end of the evening for something light and easy, like viewing your favorite sitcom (record it if necessary) together or playing a game of Euchre.

Space: Give each other some space. Either you trust or you don’t. Get on with life, though. People need time alone and time with their mates and other friends. Be sure to give and take your fair share of space.

Forget: No need to “always” remember the bad things that happened during an argument. Actively “forget” sometimes. Be the first to apologize and make up. Go for it!

Fun: Couple tends to have fun on dates, then get married and too serious. Lighten up. Head to Yahoo Games (off main site) and join in any number of card or other games. Or head to a local rental shop and rent an Xbox or other game player and some games.

Disagree: Agree that it’s okay to disagree on some issues, and leave it at that. No need to create a new religion or political movement just to appease both of you. You don’t have to agree on everything. And you won’t. And that’s okay.

Refresh: Take time to look back, refresh your memories and share what brought you together. Especially when times are difficult, lean back and rely on these old memories as your foundation and glue yourselves back together with them (not literally, of course!)

Memories: Make some together. Enjoy special moments, special anniversary dates and events. No need to be elaborate. For example, maybe you enjoyed watching a hot air balloon race one spring day. The next year, you might schedule time to watch it again. Make it an annual event. Collect postcards with balloons on the, playing cards, toss pillows…over time it becomes a theme.

Start now with these simple ideas to keep your relationship with your special person longer. Most important of all, couples can happily stay together as they understand and complete each other.

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

The Powerful Secret To A Loving Relationship

Secret To A Loving Relationship - There are many factors that go into creating a loving relationship. Certainly it helps if two people have some things in common regarding how they like to spend their time. It also helps if they have common values around religion or spirituality, around politics, the environment, abortion, and personal growth. It helps if they both eat junk food or both eat organic food. It makes things easier if both are neat or both are messy, if both are on time people or both are late people. Physical attraction is also quite important. It’s great if they have common values around money and spending.

Yet a couple can have all of these and still not have a loving relationship if one element is missing. Without this essential ingredient, all the other wonderful attributes will not be enough to make the relationship work.

This essential ingredient is about intention.

At any given moment, each of us is devoted to only one of two different intentions: to control or to learn. When our intention is to control, our deepest motivation is to have control over getting love, avoiding pain, and feeling safe. When our intention is to learn, our deepest motivation is to learn about being loving to ourselves and others.

The motivation to get love rather than be loving can create havoc within a relationship.

Let’s look at a typical relationship issue and see what happens regarding the two different intentions. Jason and Samantha are feeling emotionally distant from each other, and they haven’t made love in a month. The problem started when Samantha stated that she wanted to take an expensive vacation and Jason objected. Samantha got angry, Jason gave in, and they have been distant ever since.

Samantha’s intention was to have control over getting what she wanted. She equates an expensive vacation with love – if Jason does this for her, then he proves his love for her. She used her anger as a way to have control over getting what she wants. She wants control over feeling special to Jason.

Jason’s intention is to avoid pain. He gave himself up to have control over Samantha not being angry with him. He hopes that by giving Samantha what she wants, she will see him as a good and loving husband.

However, because both Jason and Samantha were trying to control each other rather than be loving to themselves and each other, their interaction created emotional distance.

What would this have looked like if their intention had been to learn?
If Samantha’s intent had been to learn, she would not have become angry. Instead, she would have wanted to understand Jason’s objections. If Jason’s intention had been to learn, he would not have given himself up. Instead he would have wanted to understand why this particular vacation was so important to Samantha. Both Samantha and Jason would have been caring about themselves and each other, rather than wanting to get love or avoid pain. In their mutual exploration about why they each felt the way they did, they would have learned what they needed to learn – about themselves and each other – to reach a win-win resolution. Instead of Samantha ostensibly winning and Jason losing, they would have come up with something both of them could live with. With some exploration of his financial fears, Jason might have decided that the vacation Samantha wanted would be fine. With understand of Jason’s financial concerns, Samantha might have decided on a less expensive vacation. In either case, both of them would have felt fine about the outcome.

No matter how much Jason and Samantha have in common or are attracted to each other, their love will diminish when their intent is to control rather than learn. It’s amazing how quickly love vanishes when one or both partners have the intent to control. It’s equally amazing how fast it comes back when both partners have the intent to learn.